Essence of Love and Friendship

The attunement to Essence of Love and Friendship Reiki connects you to spirit and your higher self for healing of emotional issues, relationships, and past life issues connected to love and friendship that are carried over and are no longer serving you for the highest good. It also empowers you
so that you can attract positive relationships of love and friendship. The energies of the Essence of Love and Friendship Reiki can also be used to help heal others as well as yourself, including helping children to adjust to moving, making new friends, or learning to cope with and heal any
emotional relationship issue. It is easy to understand and use, and anyone can be attuned to this system.

There is a link that connects you to people you love and care for. This link is a form of attachment. In some cases the attachment is healthy and you have great relationships with family, loved ones, and friends. In other cases it can be co-dependent, or harmful in some way to one or both people
involved. The first thing to understand about any relationship is that you must first have a good relationship with yourself.

If you care for yourself, you will treat yourself kindly and also others. If you lack self-confidence, or self esteem, often you look for what you feel is missing in you, and seek it in other people around you. In other words you do not feel complete and whole, but feel part of you is missing, or lacking, and you look to fill this by attaching to other people to make yourself whole and complete.

Once you fall into this cycle of neediness, it becomes habit, it becomes comfortable.
But as time goes on, you begin to feel unsatisfied, yet the old habits are set.

The reason you feel unsatisfied, is because someone else cannot make you whole and complete. You are already whole and complete, but you cannot see this or feel it because you do not feel good about yourself.

People who are very needy, people who are in relationships in which they treat others badly, or they allow themselves to be treated badly, are not in a healthy relationship. If you treat others badly- generally, you have a lack of self confidence and esteem and seek to make yourself feel powerful and dominate by putting others beneath you in some way. It could be by putting others down verbally, hurting others physically, or ignoring others. This means if you don’t pay attention, you don’t hear or listen to what someone has to say, or you to do not believe in others, you are actually saying in your actions that they are not worthy, and that they have nothing of value to say or contribute. In reality, this is actually how you feel about yourself, but you project it on others in your relationships.

If you allow yourself to be treated badly- Most generally, you have learned this false programming from someoneelse along the way in life. Someone has treated you badly, and you did not know how to make it stop. You were conditioned to believe you are unworthy or have nothing of value to offer. This is especially true with children, which is the beginning of where we learn these things.

Often it is unintentional on the part of others when we are treated badly through being ignored, or you see our family members being treated this way and not knowing any better as children, we grow up thinking it is normal. We learn this behavior.
We learn to think this is just how it is.